When you are expecting a baby, you need all the love and support you can get. So what do you do when your husband leaves you just when you need him most?
Read the story of Kim Wright, 39, a child minder, who lives with her five daughters – Stella, 22, Claire, 14, Lynda, 11, Andrea, 8, and Sarah, 2. She was dumped while pregnant and the steps she took to win back her husband for the sake of the children.
Andrew and I met when we both worked in a factory. I was 21 with bags of confidence. He was 20, plagued by acne and had never had a girlfriend.
I was on my own with Debra – her dad had left me for another woman when she was two – but Andrew did not mind that I had a young child.
We got married a year after we started seeing each other, and had three daughters. Andrew was a brilliant dad and the girls adored him. But I desperately wanted to have one more child – maybe a boy.
That is when the rows started. Andrew thought we had enough children, but in the end he relented. I was soon pregnant, but at 17 weeks my baby died inside me. I was induced and delivered a boy who I called Philip. We were both heartbroken, but three months later I became pregnant again.
Andrew was very cold when I told him; although I was sure he would come round to the idea. But when I was four months pregnant he announced that he was leaving me.
When I pleaded with him to stay, he replied: “There is nothing in our marriage worth saving.” That sentence is embedded in my heart and my head. He told the girls: “I don’t love Mummy any more. I’m moving out.”
He left, and when he asked if I wanted him at the birth, I said no. He moved in with another woman. He said he had met her after we separated. I tried to keep calm for the sake of the baby, but I was ill with high blood pressure and constantly felt drained and dizzy. I gave birth to Sarah on my own.
I rang Andrew and he came to the hospital. I begged him to hold Sarah. He did but he told me: “I’m only here because my girlfriend told me to come and make sure I did not want to go back to you.” Until then I had hoped he might come back.
Life is hard but I’m determined to win back my ex husband for the sake of my daughters. They needed someone they can call Daddy.
A friend of mine who saw my predicament decided to introduce me to some techniques that actually worked for her. She told me as a first step never to beg him, that begging will make me look like I wanted to depend on him for survival. I took the bold step to apply the techniques. Slowly and calmly, I reminded him of the good times we had together and that I have forgiven him of every hurt. Within 4 weeks of applying the techniques, he came back to me and the children, a more responsible and better person.
He said he was bewitched by his girlfriend and did not know what came over him. We are all happy now.
Are you faced with the trauma of a husband or wife or even a boyfriend or girlfriend who dumped you when you needed them most? You can get the benefits of the same techniques and strategies used by Kim Wright to win back her ex husband now. Apply the techniques and win your ex back again.